Do you think that you alone can quit a bad habit and change yourself in doing good acts? I don’t think so!
You can only change a bad habit if you make a plan. You plan for something to prove yourself. You prove yourself in people’s eye, not for your own self.
You are valuable in the society or in the tribe that you belong to. If you don’t have any specific identity and you think that you can change your perception in the eye of other people; you are making a mistake.
You can shape your perception up by planning and executing the plan. When people will see your execution and the positive results; they will accept you and that is your success.